Sunday, October 10, 2010

Why the Room of 12?

Sustainability is also about sustainable culture. And for me, sustainable culture is about creating community where we are.

It's about exploring, learning, co-creating ways of being together that foster genuine connection, intimacy, truth-telling, wisdom, discernment, a sense of belonging and mattering.

We need spaces where we can come together with others who care. We need places to learn to stretch our courage, hone our skills, and rest down in the circle of each other's strength and vulnerability.

The Room of 12 began as one of those emails that gets passed around. You've probably seen it. The one about what if you could get 12 of the most amazing women you know in the same room together. Nothing would be impossible.

So I decided that, while there were amazing women i know all around the world that i would LOVE to have in a room together, there were also some pretty darn amazing women right in my backyard and i needed to get to know them better. And i also figured the same was true for you.

So Room of 12 was born. I have no idea where we're going. But i'm loving the company.

What's the idea? Gather up to 12 women and find a place to get together in a circle once a month. Ring some bells, blow a conch, bang a drum...whatever you like to call you all present. And begin by sharing why you came: why this was the most important place to be, in this moment. Then let it happen. Talk, laugh, dance, sing, walk, cry, make art, meditate, chant, eat, trade backrubs or foot massage, plot political change, social innovation, new business ventures, whatever.

Nothing is impossible with a circle of good women at your back.

Then, when you're done, show up here and share what it feels important to share.

Keep the circles growing.

I will be sharing tips, techniques, and processes for those who care about that sort of thing over at my professional blog: A Deeper Life

Don't wait for me, though. Get it going. The world is waiting for you to give the gift only you can give.


10-10-10 Beginning in Gratitude

Today we began the experiment coming to be known as the Room of 12. A couple of us have been working away at this, but today we spontaneously began. Our Room had 5 women in it today. Many of us meeting for the first time. The conversation was deep right from the start.

We began by sharing from our hearts why we chose to be there this day. All of our reasons sprang from a desire to give thanks, to appreciate the abundance already present in our lives, and to connect to a new circle of friends.

At the end of our three hours together, we left with much wisdom having been shared. Our hearts filled with new energy and possibility.

And so we begin. Are you ready to join us? Are you ready to call in your own Room of 12?